#LoveNote

Stop looking for some one just to change your relationship status or your financial situation. Choose a partner who brings out the best in you, some one who wants to know your mind, your heart and your soul as much as they want to know your body. Find some one who values every moment you spend with them even if it's just a walk down the road from your home or one minute conversation on the phone. Find some one who appreciates every gift they receive from you even if it's  a wild flower you picked on your way to meet them. Be with some  one you want to spend the rest of your life with the one who wants to spend the rest of their life with you. Love is is two way street so if you are invested and your partner is not then your wasting time. Be with some one you can build with, some one you can dream with because if you can't see yourself marrying and growing old with the person in your life then you are with the wrong one.  Find a partner who doesn't want your relationship to be a dog and pony show for social media likes and comments but some one who values the privacy and sanctity of your "coupledom". I'm not saying there is anything wrong with posting a picture of a moment shared with your significant other occasionally but let's keep it real some people especially women tend to over do the "relationship posts".

Relationships are hard work. If you are in it for the wrong reasons then it will never go the distance and if it ends up where you'd like, if  you can't put in the work necessary your relationship will never last.